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Friday, February 12, 2016

Haters will..hate!

Hi guys,
My post for today is for all the bloggers out there, and of course, all my readers that continually have to face haters, these brainless people who, instead of having a constructive critic, which I always embrace (just ask my friends), love to leave trashy, despicable comments, that just love polluting your day! 
I usually ignore these types of people and generally don't give them much attention, but I see nasty comments to my fellow bloggers as well, so I thought I should express my thoughts regarding the situation.


Main question is: why are they hatin'? I mean, sure, I don't love everyone, but I'm not sitting all day just dropping negative comments to the people I don't like, I just ignore them! Like today, I had a nasty comment from someone, something like "yeah, cheap sh*it that nobody buys". Excuse me miss that I don't dress only in Chanel. My mom wasn't a billionaire and I didn't marry some rich guy for his money. I like fashion. I like dressing up the way I feel, and yes, sure, as a blogger you get free stuff THAT I CHOOSE! So I never wear things I don't like or that I'm paid to promote. I choose and newsflash - magazines do the same. But we are choosing what to show, and if a t-shirt is just 4$ on a website, well, you cannot expect to be super high quality cause the price reflects the quality. Always. 
There are people out there who cannot afford to give 50$ for a tee, so yeah, I'm pointing out that you can get one for 4$, not that high quality, but it's still cute. Sometimes even cutter than an expensive one! If you want to talk about crappy things, take a look in the mirror and see what crap looks like. There I said it!


I know I saw a movie and a guy said that when you start having haters, you start to be famous. Well, I don't want that. I just do my blog with a passionate sense towards fashion. If you can see my Instagram or even my blogger platform, they're not high quality things that look like taken from a magazine. I do my own make-up, my own hair, I don't own a stylist or a PR, heck, I even write and publish on the blogspot platform, I don't own a website ! Why? Because I feel like this is the real blogging attitude. And yes, I don't buy my followers or anything, and yes this thing is regressing me, but I don't care. I do it for the love of blogging and sure, I like when people feel inspired by my outfits or when I get opportunities to work with brands and stuff, but I'm not selling myself; it's still me. It's still the same girl who started blogging a few years ago and felt that this blog and everything that came along changed her life. Cause it did. I feel more organized, I'm always updated with trends and everything and know that like art, fashion is subjective too, so if you feel that you don't like me or my outfits or I accessorized a wrong pair of shoes, then you can leave a constructive critic, not like raised in the jungle shitty attitude. 


So this is for my fellow bloggers who experience hatred comments every other day - let them talk - we have a saying in Romania - Câinii latra, ursul merge! - I'll let you Google translate that one ;)
Kisses,
R.

2 comments:

  1. It always makes me so mad when I see hateful comments. On my own blog and on others. They are just SO unnecessary. Like, why do you care enough to post something rude to a complete stranger? Don't like something? Move on. Go away. I seriously do not understand haters on the internet. They honestly need to get a life. So glad you did a post on this topic!
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  2. Well said, I haven't deal with haters yet, but you are right, why do people have to be so hateful towards others? I don't go insulting everyone I hate or don't like.

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